No major offence to anyone who is married. But I cant fathom the sciences behind your obsession to being aunty. And talking to me about marriage. Go away, all of you. The whole full stop you put when you are married pisses me off. Yes, it is that annoying. So what if marriage is the single most defining point in your life? It is not in mine. It will never be in mine, even if I get to marry the cho chweet sweetheart of my life. Live with your munchkin happily, but for sake of my swear words, do not bother naive (!) singles like me.
What is even worse is that you go around telling stories to people on why no one above the age of 24 should be single. Did you just forget that the day before your wedding, you came and stood like a fool about tying that saree? Damn, no one learns to master wearing the saree even for eons after marriage. I am yet to learn manage a duapatta. But at least, I do not sit like a doll when I dress up.
Have i told you how much fun it is to have own reading time? Or own walking time? Just because a truck load of girls have decided to hand over the remote control of their lives to their munchkins, it does not mean womanhood has lost powers of self existence.
Though, I have a bunch of best friends who are married and yet cool. Or, to be married and even cool about it. That is the way to live. This business of two bodies one heart is filmy. Get over it. It is filmy even for me.
Though, I have a bunch of best friends who are married and yet cool. Or, to be married and even cool about it. That is the way to live. This business of two bodies one heart is filmy. Get over it. It is filmy even for me.
Marriage is important, its fun and probably everyone (including me) will enjoy it.But to go one step ahead and act like it is the coolest thing to do at 24 is no joke. It is annoying to everyone, even to your families.
Grumpy post, bear with me. My vent blog :P
This post is grumpy! And 24 is a right age. Time to get you married then ;)
ReplyDeleteOdi poidu :P you are not the pissing off types, i am pretty sure.
ReplyDeletehehe.. there are several after effects of friends (esp girls) getting married, yours is the most ideal one though.. check this - http://thelubberwort.blogspot.com/2011/10/its-october.html, this is also related to it in some way..!!
ReplyDeletei agree with Lucas :p
ReplyDeleteI agree with you - whats wrong with people - why is 24 the right age to get married?? If only looks could kill, I would have easily brought down the earth's population by a considerable number!
ReplyDeleteCartic - :P, I will wish you this year :) and next, and next even if I do get married!
ReplyDeleteKarthi, same response! Wats with you ppl :P
ReplyDeleteAnon, whoever you are - my type! I wish too! even my smirk will kill :P
ReplyDeleteThanks! but once you get your dream madhavan.. appo pakalum.. ;)
ReplyDeleteHey , I really really really second u.. I am married with a kid.. got married at 27 .. and I still dont understand the hue and cry they make when they get engaged.. I had a love marriage and really enjoi being with him.. but still I babdly miss those times when i could relax alone with a cup of coffee and a book.. Its not that I regret being married but I strongly think that being single is wonderful and dammm coool too... except maybe when all ur best frens get married and all around start poking u.. and again when u need some1 of ur kind to share accomodation with .. but there s none..
ReplyDeleteSmitha, Yaay! thts the way to be. I know, that accomodation issue slightly nerves me, but it should all be okay. I think now I should also write on the clingy to boyfriend singles :P. Thanks for dropping by!
ReplyDeleteUh oh, I am sorry but I will have to disagree! Being married with the 'right guy' is just amazing. My hubby gives me all the space I need. For example, I spent the whole morning writing a book review without making coffee, taking care of the baby or even brushing, while he, without asking, took care of it all.
ReplyDeleteI don't think the 2 hearts 1 body thing can happen.. but boy when you hit the right frequency, its something else. Its like getting an additional goodie bag along with your own reading and walking time. :)
he he, archana :) so true! I never meant to say marriage is a not so nice thing, just cant handle the drama some people make. call it also my own vent. Agree, on the last line! So true, eh!
ReplyDeleteHey archana,
ReplyDeleteI share similar ideas about marriage.
I find that most of the about-to-be-married guys totally live in fantasy and unaware of the present. The annoying part is to listen to their stories of so-nice-caring-kind life partner which in most times a showy picture.
God save us :) :)
Bhavya - Tell them to go and mind their own businesses:) Seriously,we will also get our own caring, nice partners and will be without showing off. Che :)
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